Couples Boudoir Session Overview
What is a Couple’s Boudoir Photography Session?
When you think about boudoir sessions, what usually comes to mind is one woman in a sexy garment in a beautiful setting. Couple’s boudoir photography — which is essentially the same only it involves two people — Has become very popular recently. For some, it’s the preferred option over a traditional boudoir session.
If you’re trying to decide between whether or not you should have a traditional stand-alone boudoir session or one with your partner, consider the following:
Reasons to Have a Stand-Alone Boudoir Session
You feel more comfortable being by yourself in a boudoir setting
You want to gift your partner the images of yourself
You want to have these images for yourself, as a sort of “gift” to yourself
You want to celebrate your body, specifically
You’d like to exercise free reign over the session planning experience
Reasons to Have Couple’s Boudoir Session
The idea of being alone in the images makes you uncomfortable or overly nervous
You want to capture the intimacy between you and your partner
You want to have a collaborative session planning experience with your partner
You want to do something bold that helps foster emotional intimacy
You want to celebrate your love — whether new or old
Payment Plans
When you are preparing to invest in your boudoir experience, we want to make sure you know what your options are for payment. Some clients want just a few images and others want it ALL — so we’ve created this handy guide that details the range of available payment options for any budget.
Pay in full before your session
How it works: Choose your desired collection and pay in full now.
Advantage: Qualify for exclusive BONUS PERKS - just for choosing your collection now - and you can still upgrade at your ordering session!
Accepted payments type: CREDIT or DEBIT (Contact the studio if you wish to pay with cash)
Eligible for perks: Yes. Pre-paid collections or albums over $1500 are eligible for bonus perks.
Pay 0ver time/Pre-Payment plan
How it works: Choose your dream collection and make payments towards it prior to scheduling your session. Start your payment plan from 30 days to 1 year in advance of your desired session date.
Advantage: Plan ahead and pay over time, with our easy Boudoir Bank Account program. You’ll also qualify for exclusive BONUS PERKS - just for choosing your collection now - and you can still upgrade at your ordering session! This is a great option if you wish to budget and plan ahead for your dream session, up to 1 year in advance.
Accepted payment types: CREDIT or DEBIT ONLY;
MORE DETAILS:
15% down to start your payment plan.
Balance divided over equal payments, up to 12 months; must start at least 30 days prior to desired session date.
Choose from monthly, bi-monthly, or weekly payment options.
Payments made into boudoir bank account are non-refundable
Pay in full at viewing & ordering session
How it works: On the day of your viewing session, you simply pay in full for your desired collection and add-ons.
Payment plans are not available after your session and any order must be placed at the time of the viewing session. If you have a Same Day ordering session, you should also be prepared to pay in full or pay for your desired upgrades in full.
Advantage: While you won’t have access to our BONUS PERKS, your order will still be placed ASAP after your ordering session and you’ll receive your products right away.
Accepted payment types: Cash, Credit, or Debit Card (all major credit cards accepted). PayPal Credit Installments may be another option available to you; if you wish to use financing, please apply prior to your ordering session whenever possible, to ensure a timely credit decision (usually instant, but can take a few business days).
Loving Your Curves
One of the most frequently asked questions I get — and it often comes across with a certain level of concern — is whether someone should “bother” with a boudoir session if they’re plus-sized or curvy. YES! YES, YES YOU SHOULD!
Loving Your Curves During A Boudoir Session
One of the most frequently asked questions I get — and it often comes across with a certain level of concern — is whether someone should “bother” with a boudoir session if they’re plus-sized or curvy. I understand that question because we’re all bombarded with a certain type of image in the media and marketing, but the truth is that every body is different, and every body is beautiful in its own way. The answer to whether you should have images taken if you don’t fit a certain stereotypical mold is YES! YES, YOU SHOULD! Of course you should — you are gorgeous.
When you’re in front of my camera, I’m 100% focused on highlighting your favorite features and making you look and feel dang good, and that’s true for clients of every. single. size. We all have some insecurities and self-perceived flaws, and that’s OK and normal, but I’ve yet to have a woman walk away from a session with me not feeling anything but stronger and more appreciative of every inch of herself.
Consider a boudoir session with me an opportunity to embrace every single curve on your body. A chance to show off your figure in a sexy something — or in some cases nothing at all! An opportunity to feel empowered in your own skin and walk away feeling more beautiful than you ever have before.
Why I chose to empower women through boudoir
Boudoir sessions empower women. They give them space to unleash their curves, to forget about all the marketing noise, to celebrate their bodies in a way they’ve never done before.
Some people become doctors, teachers, or politicians, some throw themselves into the world of finance or sales, and some run full steam into the sciences. These practical jobs have their place on this Earth and I’m grateful to every single person who chooses any of the aforementioned career paths (and all the ones I didn’t name). I’ll be the first to admit that boudoir photography isn’t exactly “practical,” and that it might even be misunderstood by some. But there’s one thing I know from personal experience doing this work: it changes lives.
It’s no secret that women, specifically, face a brutal and judgmental world. One filled with marketing images of airbrushed “perfection,” and marketing ploys to become “better” through diet, supplements, gym memberships, and more. Baring all in front of the camera — literally — may seem like a way to highlight every self-perceived flaw that women are taught to believe about themselves, but I’m here to tell you that a boudoir session has the complete opposite effect for my clients.
Boudoir sessions empower women. They give them space to unleash their curves, to forget about all the marketing noise, to celebrate their bodies in a way they’ve never done before. I may not have a “practical” job that saves literal lives or educates our children, but just like I value those careers, I know — there’s value in what I do as a boudoir photographer, too. The proof? Every woman who steps in front of my camera and walks away feeling more sure of herself and more beautiful than ever before.
Choosing what to wear to your boudoir shoot
Trying to figure out what to wear at your boudoir session? We've got a few tips to help you out:
Trying to figure out what to wear at your boudoir session? We've got a few tips to help you out:
1. Wear what makes you feel sexy. Boudoir sessions are all about bringing your sexy side, so if you put something on and you feel uncomfortable, move on to the next option. Consider it sort of like searching for the perfect wedding dress. When you put it on and can't help but spin in front of the mirror or think, "Heck yes, I'm sexy!" then that is the piece you should wear on shoot day.
2. If you are doing a boudoir shoot as a gift for your significant other, Consider what he/she likes too. Maybe they love you in the color red, or still talks about that baby doll number you wore a couple years ago. If he/she is into sports or a certain hobby, play into that, as well.
3. Opt for lingerie that flatters your favorite parts. If you've got an impressive rack (yes, we're going there), then choose something that really shows of that feature. Maybe you're a fan of your own derriere and want to show off the cakes too. Choose a piece that accentuates whatever features you love most about yourself.
4. Footwear matters, too. It's so easy to go into a less-than-classy vibe depending on your footwear. Our suggestion: keep it simple. Patterns, baubles, bells, whistles, and more than three inches of heel can all lean “too much.” Instead, opt for shoes that scream "sexy sophistication." FYI: Heels can also do a lady good when it comes to posture and accentuating muscles in her legs.
Preparing for your boudoir session
Pre-Session Beauty Prep – We suggest getting a mani/pedi a few days prior to your session. If you wax, don’t forget to pencil that into your schedule, as well. If you want to have a base tan for your photos, we recommend beginning to tan a few weeks prior to your session to avoid burning – and remember to think about your outfit and avoid any tan lines that will look bad in photos. We suggest staying away from spray tans. Don’t forget to get your eyebrows shaped before your session.
Choose your Wardrobe – Lingerie is great, but you don’t have to wear it if you don’t want to. A button down shirt, sports jersey, oversized sweater, or tight shirt and booty shorts are great alternatives. Be sure to try on your outfit(s) prior to your session to ensure everything fits properly.
Don’t Forget Accessories – Make sure you think about jewelry, shoes, props, etc. Pack anything you need to get it ready for your session. For props, we suggest bringing personal items that are significant to your partner – sports gear, dog tags, lab coat, etc.
Hair and Makeup – We highly recommend using a makeup artist. If you need suggestions on who we like to work with, please contact us. A MUA will make sure that you look flawless and ready for your close up.
Choose a Location – We can help you with this if you don’t already have a location in mind. We tend to do these sessions at hotels, in studio, or at a private air b&b.
Exposure – Talk to us prior to the session to let us know what you are comfortable with and how exposed, or unexposed, you want to be during your session. Everyone has a different comfort level, and we like to be aware and informed of your expectations prior to your session so there are no awkward moments.
Pre-Session Beauty Prep – We suggest getting a mani/pedi a few days prior to your session. If you wax, don’t forget to pencil that into your schedule, as well. If you want to have a base tan for your photos, we recommend beginning to tan a few weeks prior to your session to avoid burning – and remember to think about your outfit and avoid any tan lines that will look bad in photos. We suggest staying away from spray tans. Don’t forget to get your eyebrows shaped before your session.
A few days before your session, lower your salt intake to avoid bloating and also eat a light breakfast the morning of. Drink a lot of water leading up to your session for beautiful, healthy skin and get a good night’s rest the night before. Shave and moisturize for beautiful legs. Wear a clear deodorant. Don’t wear tight clothing, bras, panties, socks, etc. the morning of your session or driving to your session. These will leave red marks on your skin and we want you looking your best.
Relax – The most important thing you can do is relax. We will make sure you look amazing in your photos, so don’t worry! If you’re uncomfortable, it will show, so just keep calm.